10 Sept 2023 – 23rd Sunday, (A)
10 Sept 2023 – 23rd Sunday, (A)
We have a moral obligation to correct blatant wrongdoing, whether in the family, the workplace or society. But it is incumbent on those who have others in their care to offer correction with love and respect. The old dictum, “hate the sin but love the sinner” is a good guideline in many situations, as is St Paul’s principle: “Owe no one anything, except to love one another.”
(1) Ezekiel 33:7-9
As a preacher, Ezekiel has the responsibility to warn sinners to repent
The word of the Lord was addressed to me as follows,
“You, mortal, I have made a sentinel for the house of Israel; whenever you hear a word from my mouth, you shall give them warning from me. If I say to the wicked, “O wicked ones, you shall surely die,” and you do not speak to warn the wicked to turn from their ways, the wicked shall die in their iniquity, but their blood I will require at your hand. But if you warn the wicked to turn from their ways, and they do not turn from their ways, the wicked shall die in their iniquity, but you will have saved your life.”
Responsorial: Psalm 94:1-2, 6-9
R./: If today you hear his voice! Harden not your hearts.
Come, ring out our joy to the Lord;
hail the rock who saves us.
Let us come before him, giving thanks,
with songs let us hail the Lord. (R./)
Come in; let us bow and bend low;
let us kneel before the God who made us
for he is our God and we
the people who belong to his pasture,
the flock that is led by his hand. (R./)
O that today you would listen to his voice!
‘Harden not your hearts as at Meribah,
as on that day at Massah in the desert
when your fathers put me to the test;
when they tried me, though they saw my work.’ (R./)
(2) Romans 13:8-10
Paul condenses all the commandments into “love one another”
Owe no one anything, except to love one another; for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law. The commandments, “You shall not commit adultery; You shall not murder; You shall not steal; You shall not covet;” and any other commandment, are summed up in this word, “Love your neighbour as yourself.” Love does no wrong to a neighbour; therefore, love is the fulfilling of the law.
Gospel: Matthew 18:15-20
Fraternal correction within the Christian family
Jesus said to his disciples, “If another member of the church sins against you, go and point out the fault when the two of you are alone. If the member listens to you, you have regained that one. But if you are not listened to, take one or two others along with you, so that every word may be confirmed by the evidence of two or three witnesses. If the member refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if the offender refuses to listen even to the church, let such a one be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector.
“Truly I tell you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven. Again, truly I tell you, if two of you agree on earth about anything you ask, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three are gathered in my name, I am there among them.”
Where the buck stops
In recent years, disclosures about paedophile priests have shocked and dismayed many Catholics. Old priests with long experience of dealing with sinners and their sins, with all their sordidness, were known to have broken down and wept. That a fellow-priest betrayed his sacred trust with the most innocent of all victims, a child, was beyond their comprehension. What angered people most of all was that his superiors knew about his child abuse aberration for years. How many victims might have been spared had those superiors removed him from ministry.
This issue is clearly linked to today’s gospel where Christ said to his disciples: “If your brother does something wrong, go and have it out with him alone, between your two selves. If he listens to you, you have won back your brother.” Then there is a further process if he does not listen, and finally, “if he refuses to listen to the community, treat him like a pagan or a tax collector.” One wonders whether Christ had anything as heinous as child-abuse by a disciple in mind, when he gave them those practical instructions.
Ironically some who preach against permissiveness can be guilty of its grossest forms. Permissiveness, with its tragic consequences, is symptomatic of our times. From bishops to bosses, politicians to policemen, parents to teachers, “passing the buck” is rampant. We want the privileges of power without its burdens. We shy away from problems, cast a blind eye, shirk the responsibility to speak out. And when the scandal leaks out we want to claim we didn’t know. But such ignorance is rejected in Ezekiel where the Lord says: “I have appointed you as sentry to the House of Israel.” And he went on to state plainly: “If you do not warn the wicked man to renounce his ways, then I will hold you responsible.”
American President Harry Truman had a card on his desk in the White House declaring in bold capitals THE BUCK STOPS HERE!, “The buck stops here.” This message would fit in any office where people are “their brother’s keepers.” But nowhere would it fit better nowadays than on the kitchen mantlepiece, with its four simple words pointing straight at us like an accusing finger. For people with others in their care, the main task is not be to be popular but to be of help. And we help most by accepting our responsibility.
The watchman should warn
The homilist might take a leaf from Ezekiel’s book. This prophet borrowed an image from war and its threat to national survival. He knows that a people under threat needs its sentries. The real threat that sentry Ezekiel sees, is not an attack from without, but failure of the community from within, a breakdown that leads to death. The danger that he must warn about is the threat of sin. This warning of Ezekiel is not directed to the community as a whole but to the individual within it. Individual responsibility takes on a new force in his message.
Our own era too is preoccupied with problems of national and international peace and security. For us, the watchman on the city wall is no longer a sufficient form of security. Our world leaders feel the need of sophisticated “early-warning” devices, so that our peace hangs upon a balance of terror. The threat of our times is no longer the fall of a city but an international holocaust.
When Ezekiel preached he was a prisoner in enemy territory and he could warn that it was not external force, but the enemy within, that is the real threat to life–that enemy is sin, the abandonment of God. It is the prophetic role of the Church to continue this preaching (even if its voice is treated like something coming from foreign soil.) The gospel of Christ is that life and peace come from faith in God and the doing of his will. This gospel calls us to repentance but is no mere denunciation of sin. Christ brought the gift of reconciliation and life. One might develop this further by reflecting on how we as a community can be a sign of what we preach, a repentant community that has found the life and peace offered by Christ.
A reconciled community: Today’s readings confront us with two aspects of the question. Firstly the need for a sense of individual responsibility in the way of conversion. Ezekiel certainly made it clear that the individual is addressed by the Word of God calling for repentance. There is no way out of this personal responsibility.
But all of this should not be seen simply in terms of what the individual owes to the community. The whole Church is called to be supportive of each person who seeks reconciliation. This is especially important in a world where so many people feel threatened by the alienating force of impersonal state structures. The Church is not called to be mega-corporation.
Individuals who are perplexed by their own failures or oppressed by the weaknesses of others, need a community that does not drive them further into isolation but one which calls them through forgiveness and love into the life of fellowship. Living in this fellowship does mean that we owe debts to one another, and as Paul reminds us today the only obligation tat ultimately counts is the debt of love we owe one another.
This reconciled community will be an effective sign to the world not because it creates a superficial harmony, but because it faces the reality of sin in itself. It finds forgiveness as the solution to this threat. Renewal of the ministry of reconciliation in the Church increasingly takes the form of communal services of penance, linked to the celebration of the sacrament. This is an effective way of bringing home to people that all sin effects the community and reconciliation must include the community.
Key Message:
When we dwell in harmony, our Lord Jesus dwells with us!!
Homily:
Our Lord Jesus explains to us the power of living in harmony with one another. He promises that if we live in harmony and pray in one mind, our prayers will be answered by our loving Father in Heaven. When we live in harmony, it gives joy to our God. Hence He promised whenever we gather together in His name, He will come to us joyously!!
Our Lord Jesus gives us clear directions on how to live harmoniously, inclusive of how to correct the faults of others. He says, “Go and point out the fault when the two of you are alone”. But today we gossip about the faults of others rather than softly explaining the fault to the concerned person itself. Correcting others is a very difficult job. Little Thérèse of the Child Jesus quotes her real life experience: “Before I was appointed as the in-charge of the novices, I used to think how great it would be if I am in-charge of the novices so that I can go and correct them. But ever since my Lord appointed me as their shepherd I understand how difficult it is. Whenever I correct a novice, the novice thinks that even though she is full of best intentions, I am finding fault with her. But when I pray for her, the Holy Spirit enlightens the novice and the novice understands and acknowledges my correction”.
How to correct others?
Correcting others requires a lot of help from the Holy Spirit. Unless the Holy Spirit speaks to the heart of the person, the person will not understand how much we tell them. We need to seek the help of the Holy Spirit and go with the blessings of the Holy Spirit. The Spirit of God will put the correct words in our mouths which will change the heart of the other person.
Sometimes people believe that since their intentions are good, God will bless them without them praying for it. When the blind Bartholomew was brought to our Lord Jesus, what did our Lord say? Knowing he was fully blind, our Lord Jesus asked him, “What do you want?” He wants that sweet little prayer. “Rabbi, I want to see”. So we should pray before starting anything, including a conversation.
When the other person is eager to change, our prayer is a sweet short prayer. But when they are stiff-necked, we should be backed up with more prayer and sacrifice. For example, when the Apostles were not able to drive out the impure spirit, they asked our Lord Jesus, “Why were we not able to drive it out?” Our Lord Jesus said, “This requires faith, prayer and sacrifice”.
I remember a mother who wanted to correct her child. So she did not eat one of her favorite dishes for the whole year. She backed up her prayer with this sacrifice. By the grace of God, it worked!!
Whom should we correct?
We should correct only those whom God has given us the responsibility to do. In the first reading, we read that our Lord has appointed him as a watchman for the house of Israel. If the prophet Ezekiel does not correct Israel then God will hold the prophet as responsible for Israel’s salvation. So it was prophet Ezekiel’s job to restore Israel only. He was not responsible for other souls. God will not have him accountable for others. We can find out whom we are responsible for. God would have clearly shown us who it is our responsibility to take care of.
Is correction the same as fault finding?
Many relationships are lost because of fault finding. Fault-finding people have generally a negative approach in life. They lose hope for little things and will always tend to accuse others if any problem comes up. They feel they are always right and they are in the wrong world. We can do an introspection of the number of arguments we get into every day. If our conversations generally end in an argument, then we are also suffering from the fault-finding attitude. Here we ourselves need to be corrected with a positive attitude. Fault finding makes others suffer terribly. The peaceful silence is never felt.
The major problem with fault-finders is they assume they do not have a problem. Since they do not have the realization, they are not able to change. We should pray to the Holy Spirit to work in them and also in us.
How do we live harmoniously with toxic people?
Wherever our Lord Jesus Christ went, the teachers of the law were at the back of our Lord Jesus to find fault in our Lord. They followed our Lord wherever He went. Since our Lord was full of wisdom, He answered them wisely always, so that couldn’t cross-question Him. When they checked Him by asking, “Is it right to pay taxes?”, He replied, “Give back to Caesar what is Caesar’s, and to God what is God’s.”
In this battle we are not alone, Since our Lord Jesus has already fought this same battle with the people of His times, He will fight for us too. Our battle strategy is to stay calm and stay with Him. Anyway, apart from Him who else will fight for us? Our Jesus will find a solution to any problem that harasses us. We should not lose hope and be close to our Lord Jesus. Arguing will not find any solution, since toxic people will always think they are right. If you clearly explain to them they will not listen but throw all their frustrations on you. Whatever we do seems to be wrong in their eyes.
Our Lord Jesus has said, “In this world you will have tribulation, but be cheerful; I have overcome the world”.
Let us be cheerful as the Lord. As He has overcome all kinds of tribulation, we will also overcome all kinds of tribulations!!
Especially dangerous to the church is the patronage of the powerful, those who reign and rule – for who will then challenge those rulers if they give way to covetousness, to wanting what another ruler may have or could have?
This was why Christendom collapsed in the end, when state-established Christian churches submitted to the ideology of ‘God is on our side’ and covetousness became the forgotten sin, even though it had also been the sin of our allegorical first parents, Adam and Eve – dissatisfied not to be Gods.
So Christendom collapsed in the two great wars of 1914-45, and a blinkered church hit a brick wall in Ireland also.
Are we wiser now, among the ruins, wise enough to thank the Trinity for their mercy and to ask that our eyes stay wide open?