06 Sept 2026 – 23rd Sunday, (A)
06 Sept 2026 – 23rd Sunday, (A)
We have a moral obligation to correct blatant wrongdoing, whether in the family, the workplace or society. But it is incumbent on those who have others in their care to offer correction with love and respect. The old dictum, “hate the sin but love the sinner” is a good guideline in many situations, as is St Paul’s principle: “Owe no one anything, except to love one another.”
(1) Ezekiel 33:7-9
As a preacher, Ezekiel has the responsibility to warn sinners to repent
The word of the Lord was addressed to me as follows,
“You, mortal, I have made a sentinel for the house of Israel; whenever you hear a word from my mouth, you shall give them warning from me. If I say to the wicked, “O wicked ones, you shall surely die,” and you do not speak to warn the wicked to turn from their ways, the wicked shall die in their iniquity, but their blood I will require at your hand. But if you warn the wicked to turn from their ways, and they do not turn from their ways, the wicked shall die in their iniquity, but you will have saved your life.”
Responsorial: Psalm 94:1-2, 6-9
R./: If today you hear his voice! Harden not your hearts.
Come, ring out our joy to the Lord;
hail the rock who saves us.
Let us come before him, giving thanks,
with songs let us hail the Lord. (R./)
Come in; let us bow and bend low;
let us kneel before the God who made us
for he is our God and we
the people who belong to his pasture,
the flock that is led by his hand. (R./)
O that today you would listen to his voice!
‘Harden not your hearts as at Meribah,
as on that day at Massah in the desert
when your fathers put me to the test;
when they tried me, though they saw my work.’ (R./)
(2) Romans 13:8-10
Paul condenses all the commandments into “love one another”
Owe no one anything, except to love one another; for the one who loves another has fulfilled the law. The commandments, “You shall not commit adultery; You shall not murder; You shall not steal; You shall not covet;” and any other commandment, are summed up in this word, “Love your neighbour as yourself.” Love does no wrong to a neighbour; therefore, love is the fulfilling of the law.
Gospel: Matthew 18:15-20
Fraternal correction within the Christian family
Jesus said to his disciples, “If another member of the church sins against you, go and point out the fault when the two of you are alone. If the member listens to you, you have regained that one. But if you are not listened to, take one or two others along with you, so that every word may be confirmed by the evidence of two or three witnesses. If the member refuses to listen to them, tell it to the church; and if the offender refuses to listen even to the church, let such a one be to you as a Gentile and a tax collector.
“Truly I tell you, whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven. Again, truly I tell you, if two of you agree on earth about anything you ask, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three are gathered in my name, I am there among them.”
Where the buck stops
In recent years, disclosures about paedophile priests have shocked and dismayed many Catholics. Old priests with long experience of dealing with sinners and their sins, with all their sordidness, were known to have broken down and wept. That a fellow-priest betrayed his sacred trust with the most innocent of all victims, a child, was beyond their comprehension. What angered people most of all was that his superiors knew about his child abuse aberration for years. How many victims might have been spared had those superiors removed him from ministry.
This issue is clearly linked to today’s gospel where Christ said to his disciples: “If your brother does something wrong, go and have it out with him alone, between your two selves. If he listens to you, you have won back your brother.” Then there is a further process if he does not listen, and finally, “if he refuses to listen to the community, treat him like a pagan or a tax collector.” One wonders whether Christ had anything as heinous as child-abuse by a disciple in mind, when he gave them those practical instructions.
Ironically some who preach against permissiveness can be guilty of its grossest forms. Permissiveness, with its tragic consequences, is symptomatic of our times. From bishops to bosses, politicians to policemen, parents to teachers, “passing the buck” is rampant. We want the privileges of power without its burdens. We shy away from problems, cast a blind eye, shirk the responsibility to speak out. And when the scandal leaks out we want to claim we didn’t know. But such ignorance is rejected in Ezekiel where the Lord says: “I have appointed you as sentry to the House of Israel.” And he went on to state plainly: “If you do not warn the wicked man to renounce his ways, then I will hold you responsible.”
American President Harry Truman had a card on his desk in the White House declaring in bold capitals THE BUCK STOPS HERE!, “The buck stops here.” This message would fit in any office where people are “their brother’s keepers.” But nowhere would it fit better nowadays than on the kitchen mantlepiece, with its four simple words pointing straight at us like an accusing finger. For people with others in their care, the main task is not be to be popular but to be of help. And we help most by accepting our responsibility.
The watchman should warn
The homilist might take a leaf from Ezekiel’s book. This prophet borrowed an image from war and its threat to national survival. He knows that a people under threat needs its sentries. The real threat that sentry Ezekiel sees, is not an attack from without, but failure of the community from within, a breakdown that leads to death. The danger that he must warn about is the threat of sin. This warning of Ezekiel is not directed to the community as a whole but to the individual within it. Individual responsibility takes on a new force in his message.
Our own era too is preoccupied with problems of national and international peace and security. For us, the watchman on the city wall is no longer a sufficient form of security. Our world leaders feel the need of sophisticated “early-warning” devices, so that our peace hangs upon a balance of terror. The threat of our times is no longer the fall of a city but an international holocaust.
When Ezekiel preached he was a prisoner in enemy territory and he could warn that it was not external force, but the enemy within, that is the real threat to life–that enemy is sin, the abandonment of God. It is the prophetic role of the Church to continue this preaching (even if its voice is treated like something coming from foreign soil.) The gospel of Christ is that life and peace come from faith in God and the doing of his will. This gospel calls us to repentance but is no mere denunciation of sin. Christ brought the gift of reconciliation and life. One might develop this further by reflecting on how we as a community can be a sign of what we preach, a repentant community that has found the life and peace offered by Christ.
A reconciled community: Today’s readings confront us with two aspects of the question. Firstly the need for a sense of individual responsibility in the way of conversion. Ezekiel certainly made it clear that the individual is addressed by the Word of God calling for repentance. There is no way out of this personal responsibility.
But all of this should not be seen simply in terms of what the individual owes to the community. The whole Church is called to be supportive of each person who seeks reconciliation. This is especially important in a world where so many people feel threatened by the alienating force of impersonal state structures. The Church is not called to be mega-corporation.
Individuals who are perplexed by their own failures or oppressed by the weaknesses of others, need a community that does not drive them further into isolation but one which calls them through forgiveness and love into the life of fellowship. Living in this fellowship does mean that we owe debts to one another, and as Paul reminds us today the only obligation tat ultimately counts is the debt of love we owe one another.
This reconciled community will be an effective sign to the world not because it creates a superficial harmony, but because it faces the reality of sin in itself. It finds forgiveness as the solution to this threat. Renewal of the ministry of reconciliation in the Church increasingly takes the form of communal services of penance, linked to the celebration of the sacrament. This is an effective way of bringing home to people that all sin effects the community and reconciliation must include the community.
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Key Message:
Win the person, not the argument!!
Homily:
Student to Catechism teacher: I feel sorry for Peter……
Teacher: Why?
Student: Because the New Testament has all the faults of Peter. Even though Jesus would have forgotten Peter’s sins, every day when Jesus opens His Bible to read, Jesus will remember all the faults of Peter!!
Can we look at the conversation, our Mamma Mary had with our Lord Jesus at the wedding of Cana. When our Lord Jesus Christ told His mother, “My time has not yet come,” our Mamma Mary did not argue. She knew that her Son was having fun, she assigned tasks to the servants, and just left the place. Now Her son had no one to play with!! Problem solved!!
The pre-requisite for correcting others is also knowing how to correct…
Sometimes we are completely right about what happened, but our attitude is completely wrong!
We pray: “Jesus, give me the right words.”
And inside our mind we do a role play, pointing out all their mistakes. And we feel that are well prepared for an argument and come back defeated.
Testimony of wife:
When there is a family feud between me and my mother-in-law, I complain to my husband. I will win the argument, but then I realise that it was slowly taking him far from me. Though we both are living together, now there is no love for me in his heart.
One of the easiest things to do when somebody hurts us is to tell another person about it. First we tell our spouse. Then our best friend. Then another trusted friend. Of course, every time we say, “Please don’t tell anybody!”
And somehow by evening, half the Christian community is faithfully keeping the same secret!!
Everyone knows about the problem except the one person who actually caused it!
But our Lord Jesus gives us a completely different approach in today’s Gospel:
“If another member of the church sins against you, go and point out the fault when the two of you are alone.”
Our Jesus is teaching us something very practical:
Before speaking about the person, speak to the person.
Why does Jesus ask us to meet privately? Because His intention is not to humiliate the sinner. His intention is to save the relationship.
Our Lord Jesus says: “If the member listens to you, you have regained that one.”
Notice our Lord Jesus did not say: “Congratulations! You won the argument!”
Sometimes we win the argument so beautifully that the other person never wants to speak to us again!
We walk away thinking, “I showed them!”
Jesus may be asking, “Yes, but where did they go?”
It is then we realise that we have lost that person!!
Victory is not in proving that I am right, it is about restoring the relationship too.
In the New Testament, our Lord Jesus Himself showed us how to correct and restore a person.
The Apostle Peter had confidently promised Jesus that even if everyone abandoned Him, he would remain faithful. Peter was very confident!
Sometimes we are also very confident about our holiness until somebody irritates us before breakfast!
The Apostle Peter later denied our Lord Jesus three times. But our Lord Jesus never brought up that issue again. Recall, beside the Sea of Galilee, Jesus simply asked Peter three times: “Do you love me?”
Peter had denied Jesus three times, and Jesus lovingly gave him three opportunities to express his love.
Then our Lord said: “Feed my sheep.”
Now our Lord corrected Peter without mentioning his fault, restored Peter and again gave him responsibility. This is the correction our Lord teaches us in today’s Gospel.
Sometimes we may be the person who needs correction!!
Whenever we hear a homily about correction, immediately somebody comes into our mind.
We think: “Father, excellent homily! I wish my husband had come to Mass today!”
The husband may be sitting beside her thinking: “Exactly! I was thinking the same thing about you!”
And perhaps Jesus is looking at both of them saying: “Actually, I invited both of you!”
So instead of asking, “Who needs to hear this Gospel?”, let us ask: “Jesus, what are You telling me?”
Receiving correction peacefully is greater than correcting others lovingly.
Tips and Takeaways:
1. Speak to the person before speaking about the person
When somebody hurts you, let us not create a WhatsApp advisory committee to analyze the incident! First pray, calm yourself and, whenever appropriate, speak privately to the person.
2. Win the person, not the argument
Before speaking, ask:
“Do I want to prove that I am right, or do I want to restore this relationship?”
Sometimes the three most powerful words in a family are not “I told you,” but “I am sorry.”
3. Correct the mistake, not the person
Explain the behaviour that hurt you without attacking the person’s character. The person standing before us is also someone for whom Jesus died.
4. Be willing to receive correction
When somebody corrects us, instead of immediately preparing our defence, pray:
“Holy Spirit, show me if there is something I need to change.”
5. Bring Jesus into difficult conversations
Before speaking, pray:
“Holy Spirit guide me, stay with me”
Our Jesus does not want us to collect victories over people. He wants us to collect people for His Kingdom.